Anger is stemmed from hate and when it is not dealt with the person often acts out aggressive putting self and others at risk. Persons acting out in anger often have underlying issues that is missed, or else has not been diagnosed. It could be relatively to alcohol and/or drug abuse, as well as mental illnesses. Often the individuals have difficulty dealing with their emotions and feelings and will attack out of anger. The root of this frustration is often rooted somewhere in the persons past. The individual may have been abused as a child, underdeveloped or severely neglected. Another underlying cause may contribute to negative influences. For example if a child has been bullied and no one handles the situation, he or she will probably develop anger and it will continue to grow. There are classes developed for people that have inability to control their behaviors or anger. The classes are designed to get the patient to open up and address his or her feelings and emotions, and then come to an area of management. The classes often have other individuals with the same level of uncontrolled anger and together they work to get along with others. Often a trained therapist will conduct the classes and deal with each other in a group-oriented atmosphere allowing each person to explain his or her problems and situation. The therapist will often work to address each individual, sometimes making them angry in an effort to find the root of the problem. When therapist is dealing with hate and anger, they must stay alert since potential risks are involved. If a person is triggered and anger is the issue, the person may become violent. Violence is something we all want to avoid; therefore, to deal with the patient therapist must enter with caution. Again, there are underlying issues to address; therefore, we must look at all aspects of the person’s behaviors, thinking patterns, logic, and so forth. If the person is illustrating illogical thinking then it is obvious we must get the person on track. Of course, the patient may have cause for the anger, yet we must teach him or her how to deal with it in a more suitable method. We can look at the thinking patterns to determine if mental illness is the underlying source of the person’s disability. If mental illness is involved, we want to send the person to a qualified mental health expert for evaluation. However if alcohol and/or drugs are involved when want to send the person to drug and alcohol classes. By combining mental health expertise, anger management classes and/or drug and alcohol classes, we can work toward recovery on the level of problem. After a series of treatment, it might be that the patient will also need medications to control his or her anger. Often when a person has anger issues and is allowed to talk through their problems they often find relief and can move forward into a positive light. Anger is a miserable home to habitat, therefore someone is suffering as a result and everyone is at risk. None of us really wants to undergo pain and suffering. When a person has anger issues, it often affects the central nervous system, the mind, body and so forth. This adds additional risks to the person suffering and if not addressed us are looking at more cash and time to deal with additional problems. If you notice, your child is showing aggressive behaviors it is important to get help immediately. Most parents care for their children and often notice when a child is behaving inappropriately and often. It may be that the child has a mental illness from hereditary is in need of immediate help before other symptoms develop. If you have a teenage child that is, showing aggressive behaviors you might want to sit him and her down and ask what is going on at school? If your child had not illustrated these types of behaviors before then something is going on. Before it gets out of hand, help him or her to learn to manage their anger. Life is too short to let your child go unnoticed.

How does anger play a role in Domestic Violence? Simply put most persons that abuse their spouse in this situation are angry due to the antisocial disorder underlying the persons mind. Anger is one of the leading symptoms of personality disorders, which include paranoid schizophrenia, schizoid, antisocial personality, psychopathic, histrionic, sociopath and so forth. Most of the persons that are abusive in relationships have antisocial behaviors personalities. The antisocial personality type often attacks when he or she is drunk or under the influence of drugs. This is not true in all instances, but it is true in most. Antisocial personality types often disregard rules and regulations and often feel they are authorized to do so. Antisocial personality types are controlling and if you are not conforming to their authority, they often vent their anger in a controlling or violent manner. Antisocial personality types will humiliate, intimidate, brutally abuse physically, mentally belittle, and it never stops. This type of individual has never been proven a candidate for recovery. In other words, men that batter their wife in relationships are most likely going to continue until someone dies. It is not wise to engage with these types, as there is rarely a chance of hope. This type will often beat a person, until death becomes the focus. This means someone will die, since this person will become angrier through the years, and often rarely ask for help. Even if he or she does get help, it often fails. I do not recommend starting a relationship with this type of person. The signs are deranged look or expressions, laughing for no apparent purpose, laughing at a situation where a person was harmed, outbursts of anger for no reason, and so forth. This type is superficial and will often lead you to believe he or she is a model to society, when behind closed doors the predator appears. Hate is the underlying source of this person (s) anger, and hate has proven to kill. A deep-seated jealousy is also underlying the anger issues within these types of individuals. Many of these type of angry persons will often take drugs, including cocaine, crack, marijuana, and so forth. They often over succeed the limit of alcohol consumptions and this only increases the odds of them blowing up in a rage. One example can be seen in a small town dubbed Dowagiac, Michigan. The person attempted to kill several women, and was allowed to walk the streets. Little help was provided to this person, and often his outrageous attacks were simply because he could not control the persons involved. The victims were left without justice, and a few even believed that he would change. To date he is sitting in the county jail on a number of charges, including assault of a police office and a hit and run. The police according to witnesses claims that the perpetrator had a weapon, and was drunk when fled and eluded the police and marijuana was also found in the vehicle. This person had an ongoing history of brutally hurting others, and the justice system let those victims down, which led to more anger problems.
Another example of anger is borderline personality types. These people when feeling abandoned will attack others. Sometimes they are physically abusive, while most times they are verbally and mentally abusive. All a person has to do is go to work and when he or she returns home, most likely she or he will be accused. The person might even call the workplace of the mate numerous times to verify that he or she was not abandoned. This is another type of angry person that rarely recovers, and like the antisocial personality types, these types are just as dangerous and manipulative. Paranoid types are also dangerous and manipulative and their anger can never be predicted. In most cases, these types act out on voices outside the head, or psychotic breaks of the mind. Like the antisocial types, the paranoid type rarely has justifiable reason for their behavior. In most cases, it is merely a control issue. This means if the person is out of control he or she will react angrily and violently.

When we are mad, we are consuming our energy and time on negative forces that may or may not prove results. Anger is an emotion that we all have and when we use anger to our advantage, it often takes us further than blowing up in an uproar. Anger that strikes, hits, punches, curses, assaults emotions and so forth are negative anger that causes more problems. Dealing with emotions and anger is never easy when we have probable cause to become ignited. When others hurt our feelings, attack our intellect, and take advantage of us it can upset anyone. We are facing problems that include, anger, prejudice, mental illnesses, substance abuse and crime everyday. However, negative anger can only hurt and rarely help anyone. For example, we can look back on September 11 when a group of men acting out on anger affected the entire world. Instead of resolving their problems, they added more problems to everyone’s life. See when you expose uncontrolled anger you are not only hurting your self you are hurting other people. Anger is increasingly causing more problems for our entire world. Since we are dealing with terrorist, serial murders, child and spouse abuse and other types of violence, we know that the world is heading for disaster unless someone comes up with the master plan to deal with all the anger surfacing the earth. We can see anger has interrupted many lives and continues as we engage in wars. We have professional leaders that are unable to deal with anger since when a problem occurs violence is the ultimate result. Looking back at September 11, we can see that anger played a large role on both sides. The terrorist from another country was mad and acted on their anger taking revenge and all this was based on a belief. The American government retaliated and now we are still fighting almost six years later and little was resolved. What if the leaders were able to negotiate and talk out their problems with each other? If both sides would have shown more responsible and maturity anger would not have caused the many problems it did in this event. We can ask is there a way that the problem could have been dealt with. Yes, there probably was, but anger took control. We can also look back in history and review the other wars that plagued our system. The wars always affect us all in some way. The anger that is issued by one party or group played a large role in everyone’s life. It affects the economy, the environment, parents, teachers, children and anyone that is touched by anger. If we are going to get ahead in life, we have to find a way that deals with anger on all individualities. Anger is a sign of mental illness, substance abuse and common society. Some of us act out violently while others of us find a more suitable way to deal with our problems. If we use anger positively we are sure to have a much more productive life. In a way, we all rely on each other whether it is directly or indirectly. If you have a problem with anger, there are anger management classes to rely on, or mental health experts waiting to help you deal with your anger. If you have substance abuse issues that contribute to anger then alcohol and drug classes are free of charge to help you learn how to deal with your stress and anger. The people that attend most these meetings have their own problems and have found a way to deal with them more effectively. Anger rules the world at this point since we are all touched by the violence that plagues our system, but if we all take the first step to dealing with our emotions and anger then our lives will benefit us all. If you know someone that is dealing with anger show the person some patients and help him or her find the help they need before it is too late. Remember negative anger consumes our time, burns our energy and often wastes our money.

We can review anger carefully to learn the signs; it can help us to find a way to avoid uncontrolled anger. Some of the signs are noticeable when we are anger. For example when your body feels tense, your stomach is in knots, or your mind is cluttered then you are on the verge of anger. Anger affects us all in many ways, but for the most part when we are angry, we feel emotions tangling, tension, knots, and stress in our way. In this article, I am going to tell some real life stories that will help you to see the results of anger both negative and positive. One man with a grandiosity personality became angry one day. When his mind told him that some people are a problem that needs to be removed him influenced thousands of others by his anger and lead them to kill more than a million innocent people. This man was Adolf Hitler. Now we know this man was mentally deranged, but underneath that troubled mind was a source of anger so extreme that it affected billions of people for years to come. This is negative anger that leads us into a war and this was the result of this man’s angry mind. A woman walks in the door hoping that someone can help her find a home for her two small children that currently are out on the streets with her. She goes to a public service that offers hope to the needy. When she arrives, she learns that the resources were drained when the flood caused a major disaster. She is referred to other resources that may be able to assist her. Now she is not only thinking about herself, rather she has these two small children to take care of and find them a home. Now the woman has no family and the children are fatherless. We can see a serious problem in front of us. How does she handle this situation? Rather than blowing up and throwing fuel on the fire she thanks the people nicely that just rejected her. She follows up by going to the other resources mentioned to her. Still no hope, so she continues along her journey loosing hope every step of the way when suddenly a woman walks up to her and says hey, I am looking for a roommate. Would you happen to know anyone? The woman overjoyed tells the woman of her predicament and finds relief once the move in is finished. All good things come to those that wait. Now if the woman would have acted out of anger during all this rejections she might have never meet the woman in need of a roommate because her mind would have been in shackles sitting someone on a corner refusing to see a way out. I like to use more extreme causes when it comes to anger. Most people that have anger problems neglect to see how anger can change their life for the worst forever, or enhance their success. Some us blow up in a rage when our buttons are pushed and may feel regret after the assaults are made, but overall it does nothing but causes harm. When you apologize this is great, but it is even better when you take charge of your emotions and anger. Rarely a situation does not have a solution for a problem. However if you are sitting in prison under someone else’s control you may never find the answers to your problems. Continuing we can see that anger has a root and often the root produces symptoms. When we are alert to our emotions, we are in control of our anger. If you feel like you cannot take anymore or if you feel the world is, tumbling down on you it is time to ask a trustworthy source for help, since you may be on the verge of exploding when your anger attacks. There is nothing wrong with asking for help. It is the people that do not get help that are in serious trouble and prone to anger. Finally, we see anger in two different lights make your anger positive.

When we are angry, we often find a way to deal with the stress that anger brings. Some of us however cannot find a way to deal with our anger. A faithful strategy I used to deal with anger is to handle the situation when the opportunity arises. If someone does something to hurt me, it depends on the situation but I got resources, therefore I put those to good use. When I feel sometimes, I go inside my mind, find a restful area, and talk to myself. I often find humor whether it is ironic, ridiculous dark, humorous, or what have you. Anything that makes me laugh often relieves the stress my body and mind feels when I am angry. Blowing up at the source that made us angry is not the answer. This only creates a more difficult problem. Therefore, if you have a problem with anger you might want to go to anger management where psychotherapy is available. Anger management helps a person to get in contact with his or her mind. It helps them to see that anger is the root of emotions that are out of control. It also helps the person to see that anger can be controlled if you learn behavior strategies to modify your attitude. If you have problems with anger, you might have an underlying situation, which includes mental illness, alcohol or drugs. Do you drink heavily? If so this affects the body, mind, and will make it difficult to manage your anger when you are threatened or feel as though someone let you down. If you are taking drugs, you may want to consider that drugs can cause great harm to both your mind and body and enhance your mood, making it easier for you to explode when you are anger. Drugs never help, they only cause more harm. If you have mental illness, you might want to consult with an expert in the mental health industry to learn more about your problem. Symptoms are a part of mental illness and anger is one of the many signs that mental illness includes. Not every personality disorder has anger problems, but many of the mental ill do. The symptoms may include inability to comprehend, which often causes anger to erupt since the person has difficulty understanding the person speaking with them. Another symptom in mental illness that causes anger is voices outside the head. If you are hearing those negative voices telling you that someone is going to kill you, or instructing you to kill someone you love it can drive a person mad. Hallucination is another symptom in mental illness that can make a person deranged or angry. When you are seeing things that do not exist, yet appear real, it makes you angry inside when the symptoms subside and you find that you are out in left field. Delusions can also trick the emotions and make us feel out of control. When a person does not have control of his or her being, it often frustrates the person, making them angry. Anger is also created when person’s behaviors are criminal, or potentially criminal oriented. If you have a compulsive lying habit then it often degrades your being and makes you angry. You might blow up at someone for simple words, but the source that made you angry is no one but your self. Likewise, if you are thief it is also degrading and will only dehumanize and deprive you of the ability to control your emotions. If you are experiencing any of the listed sources of anger then anger management is a great start to dealing with your emotions and anger. Anger management is a form of psychotherapy that offers you the tools to learn behavior and control anger. The systematic problem can help you to learn to associate with others without blowing your fuse. If you have difficulty, speaking up then anger management will guide you through the steps to recovery. You will address your problems, learn how to manage them, and learn how to function as a healthy person in society. Anger is good, but when it becomes a problem then anger management is the solution to success.